Paul Featured in Tikkun Magazine for “Raising Jewish Boys”

What messages do boys receive in an orthodox community in Brooklyn,
a reform community in the suburbs of Los Angeles, a Sephardic community in Chicago, a renewal community in Berkeley, or a conservative community in Dallas? What do they have in common? I think the messages have two things in common, even though there is much overall particularity. The first message is: even though you’re Jewish and shouldn’t beat anyone up, you should still to be in control. Most Jewish boys are taught to control their bodies, control their feelings, control their tempers, and as they become adults to control their children and their partners.

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